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Tips For Flirting
Flirting is simply a common sense method of letting people know you're available and interested. If done properly, flirting can be a great way to snag your future partner. And it can be fun!
Be sincere and be spontaneous. If you're going to flirt, you need to be real about it. Anyone can spot a fake. Start with a subject you're comfortable with and let the conversation flow. Don't rehearse what you're going to say. Just listen to what the other person is saying and respond naturally.
Smile. A smile shows people you're genuinely interested in them. You can't underestimate the power of a smile. It lets the other person know you're really happy to see them and that for that moment he/she is the only thing on your mind. A smile makes you look friendly, confident and approachable.
Show an interest Maintain eye contact and show a sincere interest in them by asking specific, open-ended questions. This demonstrates that you want specifically want to get to know them as a person.
Ask questions and listen. Listening in all situations has become a lost art. But the best conversationalists are great listeners. Good flirts will spend twice as much time listening as they do talking. Ask questions then listen to the answer. It shows a real interest and he/she will be flattered.
Use innocent touch. It's an obvious sign of interest and is a subtle way to get someone's undivided attention. Touching is especially effective for women and it causes people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact.
Finally, be confident. Don't act needy and follow him/her around. It smacks of stalking and can scare people off. We're all drawn to confident people and others can sense when you have it. Let him/her know that if they don't respond to your flirting - it's their loss.
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